Why do people make things more complicated than they have to be?
When someone is giving a presentation, why do they waste time explaining a whole bunch of stuff you don’t really need to know. In order to have relevant meetings and presentations, people need to develop the ability to look at things from someone else’ s point of view and approach it from their angle.
The same goes with sports. With relationships. With anything.
If you’re trying to teach someone how to swing a golf club, shouldn’t you teach them in the most simplest terms? Start with the basics and progress from there?
If you’ve just met someone and you’re hanging out, just start with the basics. I think a relationship isn’t right when it’s complicated early on. I think that has to do with the 2 people being on different levels and having far too different perspectives. It’s simple when you can look someone in the eyes and just know that’s what matters. The here and now. It doesn’t really matter much what someone is doing 2 or 3 months from now. You’ll figure it out when 2 or 3 months has arrived. The here and now is what you should be focusing on. And just take it simple. If it’s right. If it’s not, you’ll know. Because it’ll be far too complicated.